Fighting yourself
Ancient Sioux indians used to say that our greatest enemy is ourself.Have you ever imagined,fighting with your ownself.Try shouting at a mirror.What you get back is the same amount of fury and rage.My point is,we are at the same turf,at same levels when we fight ourselves.Imagine yourself as 2 alter egos,each trying to destroy each other.Each personality knows the other well enough to know what to anticipate.Each,knows the weaknesses and strength of their nemesis.
When we look into this issue more deeper.We realise that we are the ones to blame when we succeed and we are the ones to blame when we fall.We are the reason for our own making and our own downfall.Given that idea,it is acceptable that when we fall,we,ourselves have made a massive blow.
So,before we work on fighting others.lets learn to fight ourselves.The wrestle would be great,massive.But when we win,our alter ego may actually become our strength
The Redemption
After a long period of oblivion,i have taken liberty to return to the world of scribbling…it is not an easy task..but i promise i will try my best at it.Its not easy to write like fluid after such a rusty break-off…
Todays philosophy is based on the term "attachment".Well,attachment seems to be a vast topic to discuss about,but i am more interested in the kind of attachment we find in those we love and care about.For example,our best friends…so on and so forth…
And similarly,when we mention such dubious term,we often are pulled into discussing issues like how we miss the person when they are not with us,how much our lifes change when they are with us and what is their impact on our lives.
As human beings,we are not born onto this world alone.We are born with attachment.The umbilical cord can be a perfect symbolism of what our heavenly father has in store for us.Without this specific attachment(with our parents…siblings..loved ones) it is impossible for us to live.Some may say that the dependancy towards the attachment may reduce as we grow.But i totaly disagree.No one is an island.
As we leave the protective shell of our parents, at adulthood,we attach ourselves again to our collegues and if there is….someone who is special.And the cycle continues again.
The point of which i want to elucidate on is that,sometimes,in contrary to what people say,our attachments affect our lives in a magnitude of ways.They can make us soar..and at the same time plunge us into an eternal abyss.The way we regulate our attachments determine how much they affect us.
My question is,is it right to give out everything to those we fully trust or still maintain a specific border.But,it is necessary to remember that its rather hard to facilitate a relationship when we have borders.Just imagine like,hugging a person with something big and fat in between.
happy thinking.
